You're in for a treat today. I've finally convinced Kat to come on the show with me! 

I wanted to give you an idea of how we've gamified our marriage by creating 8 relationship rules to make sure we can both win the game. 

We'll unpack the list for you on today's episode of 10 minute Tuesday. 

Here are our 8 rules:

1. Honour rapport with yourself as the number 1 priority

2. Be clear about what you want (Complaining is madness)

3. Be the prize (Be excellent and always do your best)

4. Know who's playing lead and support (Take full responsibility for your own project and problems)

5. Credit where credit is due

6. Back down when you are wrong, stand up when you are right. 

7. Apologise effectively (Do conflict as an adult)

8. Don't tell me what to do