Episode 331. Flemwad, Nightmares and J-Bot
In today’s episode:
After five years of living with an idea, stage one of the Flemwad journey has finally come to an end. In this episode, I reflect on the process of becoming a novelist, explain the strange title of the book, and read Chapter One for the very first time. Flemwad has been far more than a writing project. It has become an inquiry into freedom, insecurity, identity, and what happens when you upgrade the stories you tell about what you are capable of.
I also take you behind the scenes of how I use ChatGPT for my own personal growth. In particular, how I use it to interpret dreams and process the unresolved data of my waking life. Dreams are not random noise. They are invitations. If you reconcile what they are showing you, you move forward. If you don't, you keep looping through the same problems in different disguises. I share how this process has become one of the most powerful tools in my own development.
Finally, I’ll introduce you to J-Bot. The Jaemin Coaching GPT. Built using my frameworks, methodologies, language patterns, and coaching philosophy. It has been incredibly exciting seeing the way clients are already using it to accelerate breakthroughs between sessions and be held still inside the clean coaching space.
Along the way, I revisit the central question that sits beneath everything I teach:
Why do you keep acting against what you say you want?
The answer is not a lack of discipline, motivation, or willpower - but is to be found entirely in The Self-Permission method.
Most people are still stuck using self-discipline as the only tool in the shed to try and break through their own internal resistance, managing themself from a place of mistrust instead. This is why I felt so compelled to write the book demonstrating that there is a way to work with yourself rather than to continue feeling the war within.
If you're curious about Flemwad, fascinated by dreams, interested in AI coaching, or tired of sabotaging your own goals, this episode brings all of those worlds together.
And if you’ve enjoyed the Self-Permission method and be willing to leave a review on amazon, here’s the link for Australian’s https://www.amazon.com.au/product-reviews/0648894258 and for those who use amazon.com https://www.amazon.com/review/0648894258
